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Q. Sunyata, I have a question for you about Yab-Yum —I am short and weigh about 300 pounds. He is 5'9" and about 160, so I don't know, could yab-yum work? —Sharon.
A. Yab-yum has different uses and should never provide pain for either partner!
When used to connect and harmonize with one's partner, yab-yum sitting is accompanied by long periods of eye-gazing and breathing together. Making sure both bodies feel comfortable for extended periods is a must! There are variations of Yabyum (man's legs on top, or alternate legs on top) which can provide alternatives that may be more comfortable for some pairs of people—continued.
Q. You have described some side effects to Eye-gazing and letting go of Ego's control that sounds like what I experienced: some dizziness and overwhelming calmness —could you comment further and what practices could be relevant afterwards? —Simon
A. Hi Simon, Eye-gazing or "Soul Gazing" is one of my favorite things to do with people because it does peel away the Ego's layers that filter one's experience of another and lets you "see" the "other" as they truly are -their essential nature of divinity... Here is a meditation that I teach to help you further realize your Soul's presence and vibration and help stabilize your awareness on that level: —continued.
Q. Can you give me tips on how to have a whole body orgasm? —from Tim via BlackBerry
A. Hi Tim, Whole Body Orgasms happen most often and with greatest impact when taken by surprise. They sneak up and overtake you, rolling through like a huge wave that keeps on going and going and going—ever expanding through all levels of your consciousness. Here's how you can... —continued.
Q. I was reading your pages about tantric healing massage and release of previous bad-experience that is clogged up in the stomach, anus and yoni region in women. I have a male body, and since I had some very traumatic experiences with some other people, my stomach area has become large and dead really. After reading your article I'm convinced its from stress related to bad experiences I've stored in that region. What can I do to release it? —J.T.
A. Yes, a man's body is different, yet releasing psychological and emotional wounds and trauma is a similar process to what women experience and equally as effective. Here are some things you can do on your own... —continued.
Q. Sunyata, I can hardly believe that I am writing to you, for this (sex) is well beyond my comfort zone. I find your posts and website so respectful, understanding and spiritual that I find myself trusting you. I have been growing closer to a man whom I love deeply, and with whom I feel a spiritual bond. I should point out that I am 20 years old and still in college, as is he...
I'm at a loss as to where to begin... having tasted a universal, life-embodying energy, and being intoxicated by it, I want to help myself experience that divine energy more fully. Any thoughts or advice or suggestions on where I should begin will be much appreciated, many thanks. —S.D.
A. Dear S.D., It sounds like you and your friend have found a wonderful relationship of sharing yourselves deeply. This by itself is of great value! To experience the depth of your sexual relating together more fully I have a few suggestions that may be of some assistance... —continued.
Q. Sunyata, I have a question. How do you know if you are transferring, projecting or attaching an emotion on to another? Is that the same as blame? —A.
A. Yes, other's play a part in one's movie—but only a part. They instigate, initiate, and catalyze one's field of energy as you cross paths; pushing buttons and revealing hidden things of the Self obscured by the personality, judgment and fear. To get neutral, be objective, and know one's truth I recommend the following practice... —continued.
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