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My fervent prayer is for every man and woman to experience their spiritual-sexual wholeness and have the personal freedom and empowerment to do so.

Many years ago my journey of awakening and discovery catapulted me into an expanded spiritual consciousness and greater awareness of myself and my interactions with others—primarily within the realms of intimacy, relationship, and sexuality. My path has brought me to profound insights and uncovered unique gifts that I now use to aid others to also gain a higher perspective of life and greater understanding of the divine vehicle that comprises their being in living and loving in this lifetime.

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I began my path of sacred service 32 years ago when I was ordained a minister of a conservative Christian organization. After several years of training I began to serve as a spiritual counselor of men, women and couples, helping them to experience a greater connection with the divine.

As I grew in understanding and experience I was appointed to teach other spiritual counselors and ministers in how to be more effective in reaching the hearts of their clients and congregation. But something was missing—which only became acutely obvious when my personal circumstances went through a great upheaval.

The end of my 20 year marriage also saw a great shift and opening in my spirituality and I left the religious organization I had been associated with to serve humanity with a greater mission than I could ever have dreamed of: as a Sacred Intimate, or "Daka"—one who works with erotic energy and counsels, heals, and serves another at the most intimate and vulnerable levels of being. Subsequently, I was again ordained a minister through the Universal Life Church which reflects a much more open and inclusive theosophy appropriate for my expanded spiritual awareness and intention of service.

My journey of awakening began with an introduction to western styled "Tantra," or Sacred Sexuality which revealed to me a "language" and lexicon for the most potent and dynamic aspect of what motivates and inspires us: erotic energy. From this knowledge several missing pieces of understanding fell in place for me and I made great steps forward in being able to help others understand their challenges better also.

After several years of study and practice I began to incorporate my awareness of erotic energy into my counseling practice and offered myself as a sexual healer first to my intimate partner and then to those in my community that trusted me. I went through an intense process of self examination and introspection to get clear about my motivations and desires regarding serving as a Daka~Sacred Intimate in the intimate and vulnerable realms of sexuality, relationship, and intimacy. When I felt clear and grounded with my self-understanding regarding this service and felt I could hold a container of sacredness with my client's best interest and highest good as my preeminent concern—I took the necessary steps to become certified in sexual healing and started offering myself to the public as a sexual healer and counselor.

My certification process as a Tantric Healer came by a series of private sessions with an acknowledged expert and teacher in the field of Tantra~Sacred Sexuality and sexual healing: Cara Tara ( In the years since, I have continued to build on my certification with my own research, Tantric practice and experience, finding harmonizing and synchronous principles, exercises and practices from a broad range of sources that contribute to personal spiritual growth, emotional healing, and spiritual-sexual integration. In 2009 I added to my education and ability to work with spiritual healing energy by receiving Reiki level III attunement, a Reiki Master (Shinpiden), Usui lineage. Utilizing my gift for synthesis and integration I have composed my particular style and methodology of therapeutically addressing the sensitive and compelling realm of sexual healing, spiritual-sexual integration, relationship harmony, and expanding intimacy capacity and sensitivity.

I believe every one of us has the ability and capacity to feel a sense of integral wholeness regarding our expression and experience of sexuality, intimacy and harmony in committed relationship. When we are faced with challenges to this sense of congruity and the dynamic "aliveness" that it creates, it is often very difficult to understand what to do to integrate these contracted or wounded aspects on our own—we need help from a safe, reliable and experienced guide. As a mature man who has accomplished much of his personal growth and integration, I offer my sacred service as such a guide. Please contact me if I can be of service to your process and path of spiritual expansion and growth or emotional, psychological—or sexual healing, integration and well-being.

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